Somewhere along the way, we started treating gifts like trophies. Like proof of favor. Like validation that we’re better than the person next to us. But the gifts God places in our lives were never meant to be put on display for applause—they were meant to build something. Someone.
The Holy Spirit doesn’t equip us for competition. He equips us for construction.
Scripture says it plainly:
“Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.”
(1 Corinthians 12:7, NIV)
The common good. Not the platform. Not the followers. Not the applause. Your gift was never about your greatness—it’s about God’s goodness flowing through you to meet a need.
So when did we start comparing?
When did singing become a stage for ego?
When did preaching become a race to be the most followed voice?
When did generosity become about public recognition instead of quiet service?
Sometimes we forget that the same God who gifted you also gifted the person you’re tempted to compete with. And here’s the truth that humbles us all: you’re not the only one God can use.
In fact, if we’re honest, some of the deepest wounds in the church have come not from the enemy—but from people misusing their gifts. Trying to dominate instead of develop. Competing instead of collaborating. Outshining instead of uplifting.
But gifts used right don’t divide—they unify.
They don’t elevate pride—they cultivate purpose.
And if you’re feeling overlooked or insecure about what you bring to the table, hear this: you don’t need to be the loudest voice to have lasting impact. The Holy Spirit knows how to amplify even a whisper when it’s spoken in love and humility.
You don’t need to compete for a seat when God already gave you a role.
You don’t need to prove yourself when He’s already placed you.
You don’t need to outshine anyone—just shine where you are.
Because at the end of the day, the gifts aren’t for show.
They’re for service.
They’re for building.
They’re for love.
Let’s stop measuring success by visibility. Let’s start measuring it by faithfulness. Who did you help stand today? Who felt the love of Christ because you showed up? That’s the kind of fruit that lasts.
May we all use what we’ve been given—not to compete, but to contribute.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Accounts Manager and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
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