Some people will never own the harm they caused, and their silence might sting more than the offense. But freedom isn’t tied to their apology—it’s found in your decision to release them. Forgiveness isn’t approval of what happened; it’s a refusal to be defined by it. The apology may never come, but healing still can.
Category: Emotional Intelligence & Christian Growth
Loud doesn’t always mean right. Proverbs 18:2 reminds us that some people speak just to hear themselves, not to grow in understanding. True wisdom listens before it speaks. It doesn’t need a platform to prove a point. In a world obsessed with volume, God calls us to value understanding more than airtime. This is a call to check our hearts before we check our feeds. Because volume doesn’t equal value—wisdom does.
Faith Doesn’t Mean Shutting Down Your Feelings
Being led by the Spirit doesn’t mean you ignore what you feel. It means you invite God into all of it—your joy, your pain, your processing. Emotional intelligence is not weakness; it’s wisdom. Jesus didn’t bypass emotions, and neither should we. Real maturity is letting the Spirit lead without leaving your soul behind. You can feel deeply and still walk in faith. This is what spiritual wholeness actually looks like.