Category: Men’s Spiritual Journeys

Private obedience isn’t glamorous, but it’s where God does His best work. This is the soil where anointing is cultivated—when nobody sees you, when no one claps, but you keep showing up anyway. Public anointing doesn’t fall out of nowhere; it flows from the hidden yes. From the field. From the quiet place. If you’re wondering where your oil is, look at your obedience when the lights are off.

Some burdens aren’t visible, but they’re real. That sadness, weariness, or frustration might be your soul’s signal—not a sign of weak faith. Even Jesus felt the weight of what He carried. Paul wrote of despair. And yet, God invites us to cast our burdens on Him. You’re not broken—you’re burdened. Take a breath. You’re not less spiritual because you’re exhausted. You’re human, and God knows exactly how heavy it is.

When you feel unqualified to lead someone through pain you’ve never experienced, remember—God isn’t depending on your resume. He’s trusting your obedience. You’re not meant to have all the answers. You’re meant to stay close enough to Him to hear what to say next. God equips those He calls, even when they’re still learning. You’re not failing because you feel unsure—you’re forming a deeper reliance on the One who called you in the first place. (2 Corinthians 3:5)

God didn’t give you gifts to outshine others—He gave them to help build up His people. When we use our calling for competition instead of community, we miss the heart of the Giver. This reflection reminds us that spiritual gifts are not for platforms but for purpose, not for applause but for service. It’s time to move from proving ourselves to contributing faithfully, using what we’ve been given to uplift, unite, and truly make a difference.

Leadership comes with weight—but it was never meant to be carried alone. Many of us wear strength like armor, afraid to admit when we’re overwhelmed. But even Jesus didn’t walk alone. This post is a reminder that true leadership includes leaning on others, sharing the load, and letting grace—not pressure—guide your steps. You weren’t called to be everything for everyone. You were called to lead wisely, and that includes receiving help when the mantle gets heavy.