There’s a fine line between peace and avoidance. Both can look the same from the outside—you’re calm, you’re quiet, you’re not stirred up by the storm around you. But only one comes from God. The other is a mask.
Peace is rooted in trust. It’s not the absence of conflict, but the presence of confidence that God’s hand is steady even when life isn’t. Avoidance, however, is different. It’s when you convince yourself that not dealing with a problem makes it disappear. You withdraw, shut down, push it aside, and call it “peace,” but deep down the weight is still there.
Scripture says: “I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.” (John 16:33, CSB).
Jesus never promised us avoidance. He promised us peace—true peace that remains even in the midst of suffering.
Avoidance keeps us from healing. Peace guides us through it. Avoidance silences conversations. Peace clarifies them. Avoidance conceals. Peace empowers.
If you’re wondering whether what you’re carrying is peace or avoidance, ask yourself: Do I feel settled because I’ve faced the truth, or do I feel numb because I’ve run from it?
True peace doesn’t mean every problem is solved. It means you’ve entrusted it to God, and you no longer feel the need to control the outcome. Avoidance simply postpones the inevitable and keeps you going in circles around the same issues.
Peace frees you. Avoidance binds you. And emotional clarity—understanding the difference—matters more than we realize.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
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Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.