Why Preparing Yourself Matters More Than Praying for Marriage
True preparation for marriage begins long before vows are exchanged. It starts with understanding who you are—spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. Knowing your strengths, wounds, and relationship with God creates a foundation for healthy connection. Marriage doesn’t complete you; it magnifies what’s already inside. When you neglect your own growth, you enter a union expecting your spouse to fill voids only God can heal. Self-discovery is a gift to yourself and your future partner, shaping love from a place of wholeness.