– Emotional maturity is a result of spiritual alignment.
I used to think being filled with the Spirit meant speaking in tongues louder or dancing longer. But these days, I’ve learned it’s more about how I respond when I’m disrespected, disappointed, or under pressure.
When the Holy Spirit is active in you, He doesn’t just help you feel something—He helps you filter it.
There’s a difference between reacting and responding.
Reacting is what happens when emotion takes the lead.
Responding is what happens when the Spirit is in charge.
Galatians 5:22–23 (NLT) says:
“But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”
Notice that none of these are flashy. They don’t make headlines. But they do keep families from falling apart. They keep friendships from exploding. They help pastors love people who push them to their edge.
Emotional maturity isn’t just about staying calm. It’s about staying connected—to God, and to who you are in Him. That means even when your feelings rise, your faith stays rooted.
Responding Looks Like This:
- You pause before replying to a rude message.
That pause? That’s the Spirit giving you wisdom instead of revenge. - You say what’s true without saying it harshly.
The Spirit lets you speak firmly without wounding deeply. - You feel disrespected but refuse to mirror the disrespect.
Because you’re no longer moved by ego—you’re led by eternity.
Don’t Let Your Reaction Speak Louder Than Your Anointing.
David had a right to retaliate when Saul tried to kill him—but he didn’t. (1 Samuel 24)
Why? Because David knew who he was, and he trusted God with the outcome.
That’s what the Holy Spirit does. He reminds you of your identity before you respond.
He doesn’t just give you power—He gives you perspective.
And perspective is everything when you’re triggered.
It’s Not Weakness—It’s Wisdom.
Walking away, staying quiet, or praying through it isn’t being passive.
It’s being Spirit-led.
It’s saying, “Lord, I trust You more than I trust my impulse.”
And that kind of trust… that’s when emotional maturity transforms into spiritual maturity.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
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Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
