Time is Precious: How to Stop Waiting and Start Doing

“Tomorrow is not promised.” It’s a phrase we hear often, yet too often we fail to internalize its meaning until life forces us to confront it. Recently, I had an opportunity to reach out in two deeply personal ways: visiting an older relative and making a deliberate effort to reconnect with loved ones I had drifted away from. In both cases, procrastination had been my greatest obstacle. Overcoming it became essential—not just for their sake, but for mine.

This blog discusses why overcoming procrastination is crucial for reclaiming lost opportunities and achieving the victories that truly matter in life.

The Weight of Procrastination

Procrastination isn’t just about putting off tasks—it’s about delaying life itself. Whether it’s a phone call you keep intending to make, a visit you plan to schedule, or a relationship you know needs repairing, procrastination creates barriers between you and the people who matter most.

For me, the turning point came when I realized how much time had already slipped away. My older relative had waited patiently for my visit, but how much longer would they be able to? Loved ones I hadn’t spoken to in years likely assumed I didn’t care anymore. These realizations hit hard, forcing me to confront an uncomfortable truth: if I didn’t act now, I might lose these moments forever.

Steps to Defeat Procrastination

• Acknowledge the Cost of Waiting
  • Reflect on what procrastination has cost you.
  • Visualize what could be lost if you don’t act now.
  • Use this awareness as motivation.
• Set Clear Intentions
  • Define specific actions to take.
  • Write down your goals with deadlines—no more “someday.”
• Start Small but Start Now
  • Take a quick, simple first step (e.g., a text or phone call).
  • Focus on building momentum.
• Prioritize People Over Perfection
  • Let go of waiting for the “perfect” timing or words.
  • A sincere effort is more impactful than perfection.
• Hold Yourself Accountable
  • Share your plans with someone you trust.
  • Allow them to encourage and check in with you.
• Reflect on the Rewards
  • Picture the joy and peace from taking action.
  • Remember the gratitude of those who benefit from your efforts.