Moving beyond rituals to intimacy.
There’s a moment in every believer’s walk where the question shifts from “What am I supposed to do?” to “Who am I doing this with?” That’s when the heart begins its journey from religion to relationship.
For years, I thought that ticking off boxes meant I was faithful—going to church, tithing, serving, repeating. But it left me feeling empty, because while I was performing for God, I wasn’t sitting with Him. I had the schedule, but not the surrender. I knew the Scripture, but not the Shepherd.
Jesus didn’t die for routines—He died for relationship.
The Bible says in John 15:15 (NLT):
“I no longer call you slaves, because a master doesn’t confide in his slaves. Now you are my friends…”
Let that sink in. He calls us friends. Not just followers. Not just members. Friends.
And yet, for many, religion feels safer. It’s predictable. You know the cues. You know when to clap, when to bow your head, when to say “amen.” But a relationship? That means taking a risk. That means being honest. That means you might cry during prayer. You might not always have the words. You might even get angry and ask God questions that no one else dares to voice.
But that’s when He leans in the closest.
I had to learn that intimacy with God isn’t just found at the altar—it’s found in the living room, during the car ride, in the early morning when your mind is racing and you say, “God, I need You.” No formalities. No fluff. Just real presence.
So here’s the shift:
– Religion says “earn.”
– Relationship says “abide.”
– Religion counts steps.
– Relationship walks with you.
– Religion requires perfection.
– Relationship embraces process.
If you’re just going through the motions and feeling disconnected, it’s not because you’ve failed God. It’s because He’s inviting you to go deeper.
You don’t have to choose between reverence and relationship—just be sure that reverence doesn’t turn into routine. God desires your heart, not merely your habits.
And if you’re wondering where to begin, don’t wait for Sunday. Speak to Him now. Whisper amidst the chaos. Weep in the silence. Laugh when joy fills your heart. That’s worship too.
Because when religion fades, relationship remains.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
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Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
