How to honor God while still acknowledging natural attraction
Desire isn’t the enemy. God made us with the capacity to be attracted to one another. To look, to notice, to feel — that’s not sin. The danger arises when desire is left unrestrained, unguarded, and unchecked. That’s where discipline comes in, not to stifle attraction, but to manage it.
We can’t pretend that natural attraction doesn’t exist. To deny it would be dishonest. But we can decide what to do with it. Paul wrote, “But I discipline my body and bring it under strict control, so that after preaching to others, I myself will not be disqualified” (1 Corinthians 9:27, CSB). His words remind us that feelings are not the problem; lack of control is.
Desire without discipline leads to decisions we regret. But desire with discipline produces strength, patience, and an ability to walk in purity without shame. Think about it: discipline doesn’t erase desire; it refines it. It ensures that attraction doesn’t become obsession, and longing doesn’t turn into compromise.
In a world that normalizes instant gratification, we forget the beauty of restraint. Sometimes honoring God means acknowledging the spark — but choosing not to fan it into a flame outside His timing. It’s the pause that gives power, the self-control that builds character, the “no” today that protects the “yes” of tomorrow.
Attraction is human. Discipline is sacred. Together, they teach us how to live honestly and righteously—not denying what we feel, but directing it toward God’s best.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
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Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr.
District Elder & Pastor Harold Robertson, Jr. is a seasoned IT Professional and spiritual leader who bridges technology and faith to drive innovation in schools, churches, and communities. With certifications in ITIL, Google Workspace, AI, and church administration, he empowers organizations to thrive through strategic tech integration and leadership.
