Why Listening Is More Powerful Than Words

This morning, I had the privilege of sharing breakfast with my father and his best friend—two men whose wisdom and presence have stood the test of time. It was my turn to pay, and they lovingly reminded me of this responsibility, blending humor with a gentle lesson in tradition. My recent surgery and recovery initially kept me from joining them, but my father, understanding my limitations, insisted on waiting until I was ready. His patience reminded me that connection is not about convenience but about valuing the moments we share.

At breakfast, my father hugged me tightly and simply wanted to talk—a gesture that spoke volumes about his desire for closeness. I realized then that listening is more than hearing words; it’s about being present, putting aside distractions, and fully engaging in the moment. Watching my father and his best friend interact, I saw the unspoken language of years of friendship: nods, laughter, and silence that carried more meaning than words ever could. They taught me that deep connections are built on listening, not just speaking.

As I reflect, I’m learning that listening is an act of love. It requires humility, patience, and intentionality. My father’s insistence on waiting until I was ready to meet showed me that he wasn’t just eager to talk—he wanted to connect deeply. This morning’s breakfast was more than a meal; it was a lesson in the art of listening, in making space for others, and in building relationships that transcend time. I hope to carry this lesson forward, valuing every opportunity to truly hear and connect with those around me.